When the Unexpected Happens : The Wildwood Helps

We all get things that happen to us unexpectedly, that’s a part of life. 

How we deal with the unexpected is what makes us unique & very individual. To be the best person in such situations, can the Tarot help?

The quick and honest answer here is; yes, it can!  The Tarot can show us options, give us advice on how to handle it, what to pay attention to & sometimes, even when to walk away.

It’s often noted that the Tower/Blasted Oak is the card that says; curve ball! The unexpected hit & it hit hard. Not just a Cat 5 hurricane, but a tsunami & earthquake hit our lives somehow, or as it feels like, all at blooming once!

So, when the unexpected happens, what do you do to combat it? Drink coffee? Eat chocolate? Both? Make a G&T? (Not for me, can’t drink the stuff, I’m a whisky/real ale type of girl!! 🙂 )

You can stew on things for an age. Personally, I turn to the Tarot cards & see what they have to offer by way of advice & insight.  I usually draw 3 cards, then expand on them if I need them.

The Cards. The Spread & Interpretation

1/ What is positive in this situation? – Major 5, The Ancestor
2/ What is negative in this situation? (Also, what am I really focusing on, because frankly, we do focus on the negative in general initially, don’t we?) – Major 15, The Guardian
3/ What’s the best thing I can do here? – 8 of Stones


1/ The Ancestor shows that there’s strength in following your own path here. You already knew that things were needing to change, so now that they have, walk your own path & be aware of your surroundings. You’re at a gateway to the future you want, the positive is it’s a blank page. With the wisdom you already have, you can write this blank page as you wish it to be written.

2/ The Guardian shows that the negative here is your fear. It’s okay to be afraid. It’s not okay though to succumb to it & not do anything about it. This card is also about how you’ve gotten used to being. It’s amazing what you get used to being like, isn’t it? However, it is time to change & change yourself, your environment, your circumstances for the better.

3/ The Eight of Stones is an indication that this unexpected event isn’t a flash in the pan. The best thing you can do you here is work at it. It’s going to need some real change on your part, some effort, some hard work. The change will happen where you focus your energies. So keep your focus on your goals & what you want to achieve. It’s worth being dedicated for a short while, focused.

Conclusion & other stuff:

Be yourself, your true unique self. You can say to others the magical word of “No”. It’s a complete sentence! You can go your own way. You often need to just do things for yourself but trust in yourself to do it. Fear isn’t about not being frightened, but rather, that something is more important that the fear. So what is more important to you? Work at resolving it. You may go around the issue a few times, chipping away at it as you go around, but that’s OK. You don’t have to do it all in one day or even two! Just a little each day will help!

If you want to book your private Tarot consultation & want some help gaining insight and clarity through the wisdom of the tarot, you can do that right here.

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Let’s Discuss : The Stag

The Stag, Guardian of the Wildwood comes out to liven up our creative souls. 

This half human, half animal Stag Guardian of the Wildwood reminds us that our rights and wrongs are not those of the Wildwood or nature itself. 

The Stag

We humans are good at changing things around us to suit our needs,  but not always for the better. By nature, we’re a destructive,  wasteful and  greedy breed of being.  However,  this axe reminds us that whilst we are sometimes like this,  we can and are able to break the cycle.  We can act with responsibility,  use but save and replenish our natural resources.

We’ve forgotten that in truth,  we’re the guests on this blue and green ball called Earth. The current human politics has blinded us to what we’re doing to this place we live in, on a Global scale.

On a personal level,  karma is at work.  The Stag is a reminder to treat others as you wish to be treated.  We’re responsible for our actions and their consequences. Even the human politics that we’re undergoing at the moment, is part of the energy of The Stag, though not his most handsome side I have to admit. It’s realignment time.

When The Stag comes out it is time to be aware that something within us has moved,  fallen into place, realigned.  It can be something small and seemingly insignificant. Or it can be huge, mind-blowing, life changing. Storms can announce themselves on a breeze, yet it helps if you can read the signs, but not everyone can read every sign. That is just too much for anyone to undertake.

So, the mountain of questions that come with this card start with these: How are you treating others? What do you need to take responsibility for? How and what do you need to change? What do you need to carefully construct? What resources are you taking out & what are you putting back in its place?

Let me know how this card comes up for you in the next week, I’d love to read your feedback!

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Let’s Discuss : The Archer

Getting your point across is part of the journey of life, says The Archer.

The Archer is your Wildwood’s Chariot. She’s the one that gives you the dead set focus we all get from time to time. She’ll also be the one to dance in your imagination, changing your focus as she goes.

The Archer:

the archer takes aimIt’s not enough to just go: I need to focus! There’s an aim (pun intended) to be achieved, a goal completed, when the Archer and her hounds come calling. The words “I can’t”, “I’m not good enough” or “It’s impossible” aren’t enough to stop this lady from getting to the end game. That is, the target achieved.

The bow shown on this card is of the Meare Heath design, popular in Somerset from the Neolithic population, going by the dated relics found from that area. The two hounds at her side represent her intention, her power. One is following her gaze, the other not so much: yet. Knowing that these deerhounds can take down a deer, is not lost on anyone. It’s not a sight I ever wish to see, but then, I’m not having to hunt for my food (unless you count the supermarket at Christmas time, then, maybe… 😉 ) to feed my family, tribe or settlement.

However, she does demonstrate that man is capable of making tools that fit his needs and extend his purpose. That stems from that bow to the computer I use to type these words into this blog post. The Archer is not one for messing about. The bow is now a symbol of our past, the period of time when we did have to hunt for food and survive without the modern conveniences we have, such as central heating, good windows, a solid roof.  This bow could also have a spell or two worked into its length, ready to be loosed by whoever fired an arrow from the sinew string.


The Archer asks you for a number of things. Are you ready to commit? Are you ready for the next step? Will you release the arrow (your intent) and do you have the right intent set with your ambition, imagination and creativity? There are a lot of things to consider here with this lady, least of all is harnessing your own potential.

The Archer is bold, brave, daring, focused. She’s full of intuition, inspiration, imagination and is willing to pass on great wisdom. If, you’re willing to listen. When she comes out in a spread, I find she’s asking that you be brave, step into your own power: use the talents you were born with, apply the knowledge you’ve gained, the cunning you’ve learned. Breathe, be calm and let loose your soulful arrows to achieve your goals.

I hope you have enjoyed this blog post. The Archer is my second favourite card of this deck and I wonder if you can you guess what the first is? Until the next update, stay focused, breathe and be bold!


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The deck in question is The Wildwood, which you can buy directly from Will’s site. The words are a mix of mine & from the book that comes with the deck.


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Emerging From The Wildwood

Here I am, emerging from the sabbatical I took away from technology & life.

Returning to nature is always something that my soul sings out for when I find myself in a rut. Like the Pole Star, I’m emerging to a more social aspect of my nature, after a good few weeks away.

Life gets hectic. Jobs, kids, schools, family: it can drain us. I took my two-week return to nature earlier than normal, because of plans I am involved with at the end of the month, meant I could not be away then. It turns out, that I needed the recharge then and not later on. I can always take another “break” later!

emergingComing back to my home life, the work schedule etc. reminds me of this Wildwood Image; The Pole Star. I’ve been in those woods, Wales is full of them. I’ve been in a tent and heard the sounds of foxes playing close by. The kids have heard owls hooting in the night, seen red kites swoop and swoosh over our heads at Bwlch Nant Yr Arian (over a hundred, beautiful, majestic birds). We have felt the chill of nature in our supposed “summer” months, walked, explored, played, read. I have felt blessed with my lot in life and I have good reason to too.

The kids enjoyed their time away too. They loved playing in the campsite play area, making friends, riding their bikes. They’ve been happy emerging into their day after a bowl of cereal and bacon sandwiches, returning only to refuel or reluctantly obeying the instruction that we’re off out somewhere that day to explore.

Now I’ve had the chance to reconnect with nature and really chill out (because of limited or no internet!) and sleep! Oh, it’s been bliss to sleep in, even on an air bed. Wrapped up in my sleeping bag, I’ve had no reason to feel the early morning dew of nature, though I have frowned a few times when yet again, it was raining. Wales is supposed to have less rain than Scotland, isn’t it? I might have been wrong on that! 😉


Already, we’re halfway through the month and whilst my mind is maybe still in chill-out mode, I know that it’s time to get things licked into shape. It’s time I was emerging from that darkness and headed once again into the light of life. I will have to sit and take in the evening skies at home, though the light pollution will hinder my ability to do that, to some extent.

If you’re also emerging, hello! Here are some questions to ask yourself for the remainder of the month. What do I wish to accomplish this month? What do I need to achieve my goals? What are my goals for the next three months? I’m working out the answers to these for me, are you?

I’ve used The Wildwood to illustrate my words, which is used with permission from Will Worthington, Mark Ryan and John Matthews.

My reading consultations will be available again from the 15th of August. Blessings to you all!

When Am I Going To Get A Break?


We do sometimes look up at the sky and think: Come on, gimme a break! But when are you going to catch a break?

Sometimes, just sometimes, we need the Wheel of Luck to turn in our favour. Sometimes, just sometimes it does, but not after we’ve howled at the moon and asked: When am I going to get a break?!

This question has come from my Twitter feed. Being in the right situation at the right time is the luck and good fortune of others. It’s not for us everyday folks, is it? The truth is, even those that seem to be blessed with good fortune for “being in the right place at the right time” have had to work at it. The situation they’ve struck lucky at is sometimes of their own making. Chances are, you are watching a situation unfold that they’ve spent weeks, if not months, manufacturing consent for. (I’m thinking politicians here, primarily but there will be others. Who else can you think that works like this? Entrepreneurs perhaps?)

So, let’s look again at the question. When are you going to catch a break? The answer is likely to be: When you can manufacture its occurrence. I can hear the next question already: But how do I do that? Well, let’s ask The Wildwood how you might do that.

Here are the 3 cards in their spread positions.

  • 1st Card : What situation do I need to start changing? Ace of Arrows ~ The Breath of Life
  • 2nd Card : What must I avoid changing? Page of Arrows ~ The Wren
  • 3rd Card : What must I change to my advantage? Page of Bows ~ Stoat


The first card is the Ace of Arrows, The Breath of Life. This indicates that the situation you need to start changing is down to communications and your thoughts. If you find yourself thinking negative things then you’ll start programming your mind into only working in the negative. Think positive and what you’d like to conjure up in your life. Thinking is believing, so start believing in in your own thoughts.

The second card is the Page of Arrows, The Wren. What must you avoid changing? Well, how about not taking on board someone else’s manifestation and just working with your own? How about not letting the words of others cloud your actions and thoughts? How about not letting the mind monkey’s loose inside your head? Though, the last one is far easier said than done!

The third and last card is the Page of Bows, The Stoat. He reminds you that everything is already to your advantage if you want it. Look who is offering you an opportunity. If you’re being dour, you’re not likely to know or spot that someone is offering things to you. Chin up, you’ve an opportunity here to shine! It’s time to engage with a smile if you want to move forwards.


Start changing your attitude, don’t let the mind monkey’s out to play and think about what’s before you. What could change for you if you engage? The break you want is either here or it’s ready to be manifested.

I hope this helps you and that you’ve enjoyed my little spread, cards and interpretations. As always, I’ve used The Wildwood and to book your consultation is as easy as clicking here.

Let’s Discuss : The Forest Lovers

This week, I bring to you the beautiful Forest Lovers. How do you like to be loved?

Mark & John made this card by symbolic of Robin and Marion, whilst Will beautifully brought them to life. With Mark’s involvement as Nasir in Robin of Sherwood for quite a few years (and if you didn’t know that, you do now!) it is of no surprise that this legend shows up in the deck. However, the question is always the same, at the roots. Will you love me if I love you?

Forest Lovers from The Wildwood TarotHaving a great lover is like choosing an apple. We’re all wanting to be loved and loving another is a part of who we are. Sometimes, we’re good at it and get it right. Sometimes, we’re not and we pick the wrong apple out of the barrel of life.  Then we have to undo it all and return the rotten apple, which isn’t always easy. Finding or becoming part of a couple of lovers isn’t as straight forward as it may sound.

There’s an analogy I read recently on the Book of Face about bruised apples. It was used to show children what bullying does to someone. It’s the same with lovers. I explained to my 6-year-old the other night, that having a girlfriend or boyfriend at such a young age is okay. If you don’t like them after a while, that’s okay too. It’s like trying on coats, trousers or skirts and seeing what does and doesn’t fit. But when you take the clothing off (i.e. dump the other person) you should try do it gently.

The apple analogy works quite well. You don’t want to bruise the other person too badly (go, find that post on the page and read it) but sometimes, you can’t help but do it.

The idea for me of lovers is to yes, physically love you and you them. It’s also about emotionally supporting, help provide for, encourage to help them strive to be the best they can. It’s not just about the physicality of loving someone but it’s all the other parts of it that surround the core to the apple to start with. Everyone has different views of what love is. We should learn how our partners think of that love and teach them what we think love is about too. Constructively, of course *winks*.

That is what I think these Forest Lovers have promised to do in their hand-fasting, shown here. It’s a promise that is all the above, the core, the flesh, the pips, skin, stalk and leaves. It’s a promise to teach and learn about the other. It’s one I made nearly fourteen years ago and it’s not been easy, being his apple (though, I doubt I’ve made it totally easy for him in return) but bruises, knocks and all, we’re still there, hanging off each other’s trees. Wouldn’t have it any other way!

So, back to the original question. What is love, for you? Think about it, share it with those you love and learn what love is for them.

With that thought, I bid you a “bye for now” and remind you that I’ve used The Wildwood and that you can book your private consultations directly here.

Why Won’t They Apologise ?

This week, I address another question from my wonderful readers.  Why won’t they apologise?

Being sorry, saying it, acting it, isn’t always easy. Sometimes, you have to utter that small, important word, to start making things right again.

Sorry, has to be one of the smallest words in the dictionary that is the hardest to say. Not the word “No”. That’s more powerful but far easier to say than this five letter contribution. Even my daughter had the word “no” down to pat at two years old. I went and had a little Google search for the history of this word and it seems to come from the Dutch. Typical English, it can’t claim it as its own! (That’s the beauty of the English language, it can absorb cool words from other languages, look up havering, as an example.)

It comes from and can highlight a lot of things; it can show that there’s something wrong that needs fixing and we’re not talking about a burst pipe here. The “something wrong” could be someone’s feelings or their ego. It could also be that something has happened that is beyond their control and to feel empathy, the word sorry or “I apologise” is said in a heartfelt way. The word sorry (and variants) are used in so many ways, some sincerely, others not so much. It’s sometimes served up as a platitude.

What do the cards say about why won’t they apologise? Here’s the storyboard I created for this question:

  • What’s stopping them?
  • What do I need to avoid doing?
  • What do I need to do?

The Interpretation

What’s stopping them? The Stag. When I look at this, I see a mixture of pride and a belief that they’re actually right. Of course, that depends on their perspective, and there’s often more than one right answer, depending where you’re looking at the situation from. They don’t feel they are the ones that need to offer an apology, in fact, they may believe that you’ll come around to their way of thinking. Eventually.

What do I need to avoid doing? The Lynx likes to observe and listen, but it can be done in such a way that makes people uncomfortable. I feel that the advice here is to just walk away, give them time and not wait for a response or a platform to allow them to continue their train of thoughts. You may turn into a skeleton before they apologise.

What do I need to do? Be generous! Does it really matter if they say sorry? If they don’t then it says more about them than you. Consider the possibility that the apology needs to be two ways, with someone offering the olive branch first. Be generous to yourself too. Not everyone has such a generous, deep heart as yours.

So my insights (late as they are) come to an end. I hope this spread is of help to you and if you see something in the cards I don’t, leave a comment, I love seeing new and different perspectives! With blessings

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The deck I’ve used is the Wildwood. The question has come from Twitter and the interpretations are from my own experiences. Private consultations are available to book here.